SummerTime!

I have Always been A Fall Person. I love it when it gets cool and crispy, and there is a smell in the Air that is truly wonderful. But This Last Spring I have to say I was stunned at the beauty. We had been dry for a couple of winters previous, so the Springs had been brief and non eventful. The Rain that we had at the end of Winter made for some Incredible Drives through Topanga Canyon. Flowers and green green Grass!!!
But Now that The Oven Door has opened, and approach June and July are Heralding Fugly Hot weather to come, I find myself missing the moment of Spring, and how quickly it goes! Maybe this Year I will shed my Mushroom Store Pallor and actually get a Tan!
It is a Time for White pants.
Shaving Regularly.
If You can still pull it off, Short Skirts.
The Ever Disappointing Search for the Right Bathing Suit.
Too Much Nipple?
Trying to Sell CashMere IN August!!!!
Air Con.
Everyone Smelling Like SPF!
CoCo Butter, drifting into Memory of Summers Past. Making You Wish You had The Balls Again to Play Hooky, and GO TO THE BEACH!

Ahh SummerTime!

What Is The Deal?

A Note back to The Green Thing. This blouse came one day, in a thick ass box, literally came up as tall as my waist! This Blouse could have fit Comfortably in a Padded Manila Envelope. THREE of these barely anything blouses could have Fit into a padded Manila envelope! And yet it came in a hard core Box, that could have Fit A Human!
How Much are We as a Whole Paying for these Supposed Luxury Items? There is the Cost of the Item Itself, but some of the reason's Why things are So Inflated are because there is so much Packaging, that is just Immediately going to be Thrown Away!!
I personally have found things damaged obviously from bad packing and shipping, but Suspending this Tiny Little Wisp of a Top, in a Box that could have literally Fit 100 of them in it, All The Way From Italy! It Just seems a bit Much to Me. Not Very "Green" when You Think about It.

" I Have Learned .......Those Big, Thick, Box's are Rude, And They Will Rip Your Dress!!
But..... I'm Not Namin' Any Names......PRADA!"

Be True To Yourself

When parting with the other Girls/Women that I work with in our parking lot, I have always tried to Thank the People I work with for making in through the day with Me, and Wish Them a Safe Journey Home. The other day All the Girls in Unison turned to me and said, "Be Safe Getting Home, Jess!" And All laughed to themselves, sharing in the joke. It wasn't mean in Any way, it was just them Observing My Motherly tendencies with them, and it actually made me feel good to know they have been Listening.
So Young Ladies this One is for You Guys.
Be True to Your feelings about Situations where you might feel Uncomfortable with Men Hitting on You. Men Will Say AnyThing to get You To Do What They Want. It is just a Fact. You might say to yourself that Your guy isn't like That!
It's Bullshit! They All Do It. From Birth To Death, They All Do It!
Now, Please don't get me wrong, I Love and Adore Men. I think They are Wonderful. I actually have most of my Life tended to Prefer the company of Men over Women. But as Women get Older, they start to realize the Extent to which some Men will just straight out Lie to Get Laid. I Firmly believe that is One of The Main Reasons Why, Way Older Men Go After, Way Too Young Females. Because Maybe They Will still Believe Their Bullshit!
There can be much Learned in Any Relationship at Any Age, but Understanding How Stand Up for Yourself it a Situation that Feels Wrong, is Key.
Say No.
If It Seems Too Good To Be True. It Probably IS.
Trust Your Instinct.
Trust Your Smell.
Tell Others that You Trust if SomeOne Feels Creepy.
The lie of the "BoyFriend" if you are Single is Always an Honorable Way Out. Ya know....6'2, Plays for The New York Jets!

Be Safe My Girls.

Youth Obsessed

Youth is another Obsession that has thrown our Morals as a Human Tribe into chaos. Years can bring a calmer more patient approach in dealing with World Issues, and Political Problems.
Having firm breasts and puffy lips happens in a brief moment in our Youth, after that it is our Vanity wanting to stay looking Twenty.
The Poking, The Cutting, The Puffing! Cadaver Skin threaded trough the upper lip to make it Ultra Vaginal. Gross.
Why can't we grow older in a graceful manor? Why is there this passage into Middle and Old age having to be erasing our Facial Identities, in the constant struggle to stay Youthful. People who have had a lot of work done, and you can tell they have had a lot of work done, don't end up looking any Younger, they end up looking like Freaks!
Lines on a face can tell a Story. Address Your life and how it ages You. Do You Want That Story to be so Bad that You would want to Erase Who You Are On Your Face?
Our Bodies Struggle Every day to Survive. We as Women put too much UN do pressure on our Emotional Reactions to things. We ask the questions, "Am I Skinny Enough?" "Am I Pretty Enough?" "Am I Young Enough?". When the Questions We Should be asking are, "Am I Healthy?" "Am I Smart Enough?" "Am I Brave Enough?" To Stand Up and Be Who and What I Am.
Not some contrived Man's Cartoon Fantasy of a Woman, Empty and Useless.
We tend to Accept Men when they grow older, in fact they Usually become even more Handsome with Age. Distinguished & Commanding a Man can Become. But Our Society has become such that a Woman's only worth is how Youthful she can stay, even if that Perception of Youth and Being Youthful has been so Distorted that She feels like She has to cut Flesh and Bone to Do It!

Eating Disorders

When We Look into The Collective Mirror As A Sex. Female. What Do We See?
American Women seem to have the Lowest Self Esteem of Any Women in The World. Why Is That?
Prosperity Has Distorted The Feminine Ideal of What We Should Look Like, and What We Should BE.
Women have become twisted Cartoon Characters with Vaginal Inflated Lips, tiny Chopped Noses and The Ever Surprised Expression, or Worse, NO Expression What so Ever.
Our Ever Increasing Need To Be "Youthful" is costing Time and Energy from things that could be Healed and Worked on from The Inside. Not to Mention The Pain, Suffering and Cost$$ of such Procedures. It Is Truly Scary.
What Is Beautiful?
Truly We Have Lost Our Way If Beautiful is Some Strange Skewed Interpretation of A Doll.
Young Ladies, If You Don't Get Enough Nutrition When You Are Young, If You Don't Feed The Body What It Needs To Reach It's Full Potential Of Being, then when You Get Old Things Will Start To Fail, Early.
Middle Ladies, It You Don't Feed Your Bodies What They Need, You Are Basically Angry Bitches, In The Vicious Cycle Of "Why Don't I Have A Man?!"
If You Don't Feed Your Self Properly Then You Won't have to Worry To Much About Being An Old Lady, Or Your Elderly Years Will be Very Difficult to Say The Least.
Starving Oneself In A Society where Food Can be Obtained on almost Any Street Corner is Dumbfounding! To Be Thin Is The Obsession of 90% of the Women I have Had To Deal With On A Daily Basis. Old and Young Alike are Obsessed with A Size or A Weight.
If You Have "Wings", aka Shoulder Blades, and there isn't Any AssFlesh, and You are Shaking, and about To Pass Out, You are Too Thin....You Have Gone Too Far.
To Aspire to Having The Body of a 12 Year Old Boy is just Unhealthy! We should Rejoice In Tit's And Ass! We Are Women!

Going Green!!

Hummmm......I have to say this is one Trend that I won't poo poo, too much.....OK I will Rag just a wee bit! What The Fuck is with these Soviet Monica Women with their Saving The World with their Canvas Bags!!
I am sorry, but you if are getting into an Escalade that costs $250. to fill with Gas, talking on your Bee Killing Cell Phone, while your kids are watching TV/Video Games, (sometimes also talking on Their Bee Killing Cell Phones) in the Back Seat!! Drinking their Starbucks in Paper Cups, and cutting Me off on the road, I have to draw the line at how much a $10 canvas bag in going to help the Situation!
Our Environment is definitely a subject that Everyone Loves to Talk About. Have Big Fundraisers, get all dressed up and have Their Picture taken.....But, Acting and Talking are Two Totally Different Subjects.
Going Green means No War.
This is where our Thinking has to Start.
Oil Based Economics Are Not Good For Planet Earth.
Plain and Simple.
Wake Up to The Idea Behind The Canvas Bag.
I Vote We Do Not Send Any More Beautiful Young Men and Women into the Desert to Fight and Die for a War Based on a Throw Away Society.